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		<title>The TakeOff &#8211; Inspiring Young People to Play Sport</title>
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		<description><![CDATA["In today’s digital world, too many kids are at risk of living an unhealthy lifestyle," said sports coach Ingram Jones, "and while others might be tempted to make poor choices, leading to a life of hardship or crime, we want to make a REAL difference at BaylorIC by providing sport and educational opportunities for our young people."

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first"><strong>Baylor International Champions</strong> is an organisation based in High Wycombe in the United Kingdom who have teamed up with four media students from <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.orpington.ac.uk/" rel="nofollow" >Orpington College</a> to produce <em>The TakeOff</em> -- a film that includes interviews from young people who relate their feelings about the game of cricket, what brought them to the sport and what inspires them to keep going at it in the face of funding cuts and the sell-off of school playing fields to make way for commercial property developments.</p>
<p>But BaylorIC haven&#8217;t let that stop them. Their film, <em>The TakeOff</em>, is taking off and will receive its first national airing on The Community Channel&#8217;s &#8220;Your Sport&#8221; programme on April 12th 2010  (See it on Sky 539, Virgin TV 233 or Freeview 87). The aim of the production spearheaded by Ingram Jones, a professional coach who calls on his extensive experiences of training sportsmen in Australia using explosive dynamic exercises as the key to his work with young people, is to encourage more children of primary school age to take part in sport, regardless of their ability or background. </p>
<div style="display: block; float: left; padding: 5px;"><div id="attachment_1345" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.colorfultimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/The_Take_Off.jpg"><img src="http://www.colorfultimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/The_Take_Off-300x233.jpg" alt="The TakeOff (Documentary): Inspiring More Young People to Play Sport" title="The TakeOff (Documentary): Inspiring More Young People to Play Sport" width="300" height="233" class="size-medium wp-image-1345" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">From the Baylor International Champions (Documentary), The TakeOff: Tom Lathey, Andrew St Maur, Haseeb Ali, Jordan Roberts, Zain Gill, Ingram Jones (centre), Steven Hunter, Uzair Hassan.</p></div></div>
<p><em>&#8220;The dove image used on the cover of our video is symbolic of freedom,&#8221;</em> he tells me. <em>&#8220;We want all our young players to be able to experience that sense of flight and unbridled restraint reminiscent of my own youth, so that they may more fully enjoy learning and playing the great game of cricket.</p>
<p>In today’s digital world, too many kids are at risk of living an unhealthy lifestyle, and while others might be tempted to make poor choices, leading to a life of hardship or crime, we want to make a REAL difference at BaylorIC by providing sport and educational opportunities for our young people.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Very noble sentiments. And in addition to coaching, BaylorIC also seek to encourage young cricketers to get involved with their local club and to continue their development as league players. They are visiting as many schools as possible in the UK to help set up cricket development programmes; <em>&#8220;our hope is to benefit the local community by establishing strong club links with local cricket clubs and schools,&#8221;</em> Ingram Jones said.</p>
<p>BaylorIC currently deliver cricket programmes in primary and secondary schools for both boys and girls. Coaches are fully recognised by the English Cricket Board (<a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.ecb.co.uk/" rel="nofollow" >ECB</a>) and have been appropriately checked by the Criminal Records Bureau (<a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.crb.homeoffice.gov.uk/" rel="nofollow" >CRB</a>) in an effort to relieve any undue worries parents or carers might have. There are also a range of coaching packages available and delivered specifically for schools, including curriculum time coaching, breakfast and lunch time coaching as well as after school clubs.</p>
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<p>Primary school sessions are delivered in the form of Kwik Cricket--a high-speed version of the game aimed mainly at encouraging children to take part in the main sport--with all basic cricketing skills being taught; batting, bowling, and fielding. Secondary school sessions are delivered in the form Hard Ball Cricket--using the original leather stitched ball as opposed to a soft ball used for junior players--with basic through to advanced skills being learnt by groups of very appreciative youngsters who seem to delight in the game and being taught by an attentive coach. </p>
<p><em>&#8220;If you want to see a change, you&#8217;ve got to get up and do something about it sometimes,&#8221;</em> Ingram said. <em>&#8220;That&#8217;s why we made The Takeoff,&#8221;</em> and with the London 2012 Olympic Games just around the corner his Baylor International Champions have a complimentary mission:</p>
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<li>To produce top class players in Cricket.</li>
<li>To establish and administer after-school clubs/academies of excellence.</li>
<li>To produce players with the self-confidence to be physically, mentally and emotionally ready for the challenges that await them in competitive sport.</li>
<li>To providing professional coaches to young people in the local borough who would otherwise not get access to sport after school.</li>
<li>To encourage young people to play sport at its highest level.</li>
<li>To teach not only the discipline of this sport, but also the disciplines of how to be a champion in life.</li>
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<p>Sounds good to me! Need more information?</p>
<blockquote><p>Baylor International Champions can be found on <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.twitter.com/BAYLORIC" rel="nofollow" >Twitter</a>, <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=312202671497&#038;ref=ts" rel="nofollow" >Facebook</a> and <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.youtube.com/user/BAYLORIC" rel="nofollow" >YouTube</a>. For a sample copy of <em>The Takeoff</em>, please visit the <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.bayloric.com/" rel="nofollow" >website</a> or try befriending <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=622220577" rel="nofollow" >Ingram Jones on Facebook</a>.</p></blockquote>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first"><strong>With unprecedented numbers of black-on-black youth crime</strong> in Britain, and recent talks of honour killings among British Asians, I recently rediscovered <em>SAFE</em>, a video drama written for West Midlands Regional Health Authority as a resource for teachers, social workers and youth workers.</p>
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<blockquote><p><center>&#8220;SAFE is accessible, relevant and essential for everyone working with young black men.&#8221; &#8211; <strong>Neil Davidson</strong>, Trainer and Consultant. Author of <em><a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/search?ie=UTF8&#038;keywords=neil%20davidson%20boys%20will%20be&#038;tag=paulboakyenet-21&#038;index=books&#038;linkCode=ur2&#038;camp=1634&#038;creative=6738" rel="nofollow" >Boys will be&#8230;</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.co.uk/e/ir?t=paulboakyenet-21&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=2" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt=" SAFE" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" title="SAFE" /></em></center></p></blockquote>
<p>As a piece of educational drama, <em>SAFE</em> is possibly a little too domestic for the harsh realities of life on today&#8217;s gun-ridden streets. However, it was produced to raise issues relating to young men, and young African, Caribbean and Asian men in particular. Its storyline hinges around the relationships between 4 young men who live, work and/or attend college in Birmingham&#8217;s Solihull in the United Kingdom. While the drama will be of interest to young and old alike, its purpose is as a resource for social workers and youth workers wanting to raise the following issues:</p>
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<li>Taking responsibility &#8211; in both a practical and emotional sense;</li>
<li>Keeping up a front &#8211; the damage and confusion that this can cause;</li>
<li>Being black and male &#8211; the interaction of masculinity and race;</li>
<li>Risk-taking &#8211; both in a negative, harmful sense, as well as in a positive, enhancing way.</li>
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<p><em>SAFE</em> will also be of use for those wanting to develop work around health; bullying; homophobia; masculinity; race; relationships; sex; and responsibility.</p>
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<p>Young men get an opportunity to reflect on underlying themes related to their health; on either being black and male, or the lives of young black men; to think about individual as well as societal aspects that impinge on both their physical and mental health; and to watch an enjoyable and informative video about themselves.</p>
<p>Workers get a good quality resource that raises issues about health without preaching or telling young people what they should think; a good quality (and rare) resource designed to reflect young black men&#8217;s lives and issues; and a resource that can be used with a number of different groups of young people with a variety of possible outcomes and levels of impact.</p>
<blockquote><p><center>&#8220;<em>SAFE</em> addresses a number of issues with sensitivity and care. The ABPO welcomes the production of <em>SAFE</em> which will aid the discussing of personal issues which are of tremendous importance to young men today.&#8221; &#8211; <strong>Lloyd La Rose-Jones</strong>, Chair of the Association of Black Probation Officers.</center></p></blockquote>
<p><em>SAFE</em> was designed for use with groups aged from 14 to 25, although 15-19 is the primary target group. While we purposely went out to make a video about young African Caribbean and Asian men, this does not mean that the target audience need be restricted to this group. Many of the issues raised in <em>SAFE</em> are issues for young people generally and / or young men in particular, and, while there are differences in some of the specifics, there are many issues that all young people will relate to regardless of race, ethnicity or background.</p>
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<p>For those of you who are wanting to look at racism and young white people&#8217;s stereo-typed views of black men, <em>SAFE</em> will be excellent.</p>
<p><em>SAFE</em> runs for 25 minutes and was produced for distribution with a User&#8217;s Pack which detailed the issues the video raises and the ways that this resource can be used with different groups of young people.</p>
<p><em>SAFE</em> is an APT Film and Television Production for Young Men&#8217;s Video Project (produced and directed by John White).
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">I volunteered as a mentor for <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.chanceuk.com/site/1/210.html/" rel="nofollow" >Chance UK</a> after seeing an advert in a newspaper. They were specifically looking for black male role models to help coach young black boys, primarily.</p>
<p>After several weeks of training, a successfully completed police check and a lengthy interview, I was paired with a 10-year old a mixed-race lad, JJ. I accepted the challenge, graciously, after reading about the child&#8217;s troubled background and felt particularly connected to him.</p>
<div style="display:block;float:left;padding:5px;"><img src="http://www.chanceuk.com/userimages/aboutchanceuk/A_64.jpg" title="From the Chance UK website: A child with his mentor at their graduation ceremony." class="alignnone" width="316" height="474" alt="A 64 No, Chance UK" /></div>
<p>During my first supervision some time later, I was asked if there were any issues. I said no at first, but when pressed, admitted that I would have preferred a black child&#8211;since I believe that they are more disadvantaged in British schools. My twenty-something year old white male &#8216;manager&#8217;&#8211;a former picture framer and ex-volunteer mentor with Chance UK&#8211;looked at me as if I&#8217;d slapped him. The boy in question is &#8220;the best of both worlds,&#8221; he informed me.</p>
<p><span class="pullquote">The best of both worlds? What rubbish was that?</span> Now I happen to think that all children are the best of both worlds; that of their mother and father. I have absolutely no preference for one child over another based on perceived ideas of race&#8211;and believe that each child has potential that should be properly nurtured&#8211;even if special attention may be required as in this case.</p>
<p><span id="more-63"></span>The manager&#8217;s comment was exactly the point I was trying to highlight about why I believe that black children are more disadvantaged in British schools and society in general as they are more often given less attention than others. A few weeks later, he found some trumped-up excuse to remove me from the case, offering to pair me with another child. For although JJ and I got on extremely well, I was apparently rude to his mother in a text message (which I only found out about one year later, after pushing for clarification on why I had been withdrawn from the case).</p>
<p>His mother was bipolar and on medication. He never knew his father but had a younger white brother who saw his dad. He was said to be acting up at school because various black men kept coming in and out of his life&#8211;now through no fault of my own&#8211;I had just become another one.</p>
<p>I had been called into an emergency supervision meeting along with a more senior member of staff, and told that I had been &#8220;judgemental,&#8221; and would now be removed from the case. Would I like to go away and decide whether in fact I want to continue as a mentor for Chance UK. However, there was no suggestion that I would make anything other than a very good mentor.</p>
<p>I was shocked. The last time I had seen the family, we sat out in the garden and talked quite merrily about the reptilian pet shop I&#8217;d just taken JJ to in Camden. And although his mother had shouted at him&#8211;because he now insisted on having a pet snake for his birthday&#8211;there was no indication whatsoever of any problems between her and I.</p>
<p>When challenged, the manager was unable to come up with any facts to backup his &#8220;judgemental&#8221; assertion, and no other explanation was given for why I was suddenly being removed from the case. Since this was my second supervision session, I actually wasn&#8217;t expecting a third party to be present, and several weeks later, I was still waiting to receive recorded notes from the meeting, which I felt should have included a detailed explanation of exactly what had transpired and why. Except for a brief email to say that my expenses for June would be in the post, one month later, I was still waiting for the cheque and had had no word from anyone at Chance.</p>
<p>If the organisation was really that serious about recruiting more positive &#8220;black male role models&#8221; as mentors, then someone should have at best telephoned to see what decision I had made about being matched with a different child&#8211;presumably a black one. At the very least, I should have been sent a copy of the supervision notes, if only as an indication of due process. It left me with a bitter taste. I felt totally demotivated as a mentor. More importantly, it would have been nice to say goodbye to JJ, and I feared that the episode would only serve to further damage his perception of black men and the mentoring process  in particular.</p>
<p><center><img src="http://www.colorfultimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/mentoring-black-boys-to-achieve.jpg" alt="Mentoring Black boys to achieve" title="Mentoring Black boys to achieve" width="450" height="387" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-64" /></center></p>
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<p>I wrote my concerns in a letter to Chance and got on with the business of starting my Masters degree. The reply I received on Wednesday 17th June 2009 was dated 11th August 2008. It suggested that I had been rude in a series of text messages exchanged with &#8220;mum&#8221; about arranging a suitable time to pick up her child. I had never been informed of this at all until now. If I had known that I had inadvertently offended her in any way at the time, I would have apologised at once. No slight was intended or implied on my part.</p>
<p>The letter went on to state: <strong><em>&#8220;a decision was taken, with the best of intentions, not to tell you that mum had requested that you be taken off the case as the mentor. The idea was to save your feelings clearly was not the correct decision to make and however hard it is to hear you should have been told the truth from the beginning.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>Any idea that they had been trying to save my feelings is completely laughable. I had never felt so bad about anything in a long time. I walked around for months feeling that I had done something terrible wrong, which was further compounded by the sensitive nature of working with children, especially other people&#8217;s children.</p>
<p>Now, it&#8217;s always essential to know what one has been accused of before trial and sentencing. Even suspected terrorists are afforded that basic human right and a chance to challenge unsound accusations under British law. Non-verbal forms of communication, particularly SMS text messages,  can be so fraught with misleading interpretations that any opportunity to discuss the perceived slight with &#8220;mum&#8221; would have been most welcomed.</p>
<p>I still have an email detailing the series of text messages exchanged between us at the time. It had seemed to me as if she was reliving past associations with the boy&#8217;s father. So, eventually, I rang the manager to ask if he could fix with her suitable times to pick up the child and get her to stick to them. This was especially important to me as I was shortly to start a masters degree and could no longer change arrangements to suit her whims. Most mentors work 9-5 and can usually only do evenings. He said, &#8220;that wasn&#8217;t going to happen because mum wasn&#8217;t going to change,&#8221; but it turned out that he had never spoken to her about it at all.</p>
<p>The letter of explanation I finally received went on to say, <strong><em>&#8220;although we could not make this particular relationship work because of your relationship with mum, there was no suggestion of any problem with your relationship with JJ. As such it was felt that you should be asked if you would continue as the mentor of another child.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>My relationship with mum? All I did was pick up her child, take him out on a fun activity for a few hours, and bring him back safe and sound. The one time I hung around to chat was because I felt bad leaving him crying during their shouting match after the pet shop incident.</p>
<p>She had suggested that I could call her at any time, night or day, but that simply wasn&#8217;t going to happen beyond the pick up and drop back. As I walked into the house, when the manager first took me to meet the family, the boy blurted out, <em><span class="pullquote">&#8220;My dad&#8217;s name is Paul&#8230;he&#8217;s got dreadlocks as well&#8230;he&#8217;s from Jamaica and he&#8217;s forty. You&#8217;re about forty, aren&#8217;t you?&#8221;</span></em> I couldn&#8217;t help but smile. From that moment, I knew that there should be as little fraternising as possible with mum, which was totally against the dictates of the charity, anyway. The &#8216;match&#8217; here all seemed a bit too close for comfort. We had each been warned during training to have no further contact with our allocated family after the year was up.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;As a result of your concerns we have decided to revisit our practices with regards to mentors being withdrawn from a case. Following such a meeting in the future a letter will be sent out detailing the discussion and the decisions made. We have also agreed that honesty to the mentor is very important from the beginning and will ensure in future that mentors will be informed as to the reasons why they have been taken off the case even if that might prove to be a difficult conversation for all concerned.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>Well, I am certainly glad that lessons have been learnt, which may ensure that others are not treated in the same shabby, off-handed way. Still, I can&#8217;t help but wonder: Would a black mother with mental health issues who accused a volunteer of rudeness be so readily believed? Or would the two be brought together to try and resolve the situation/misunderstanding first?</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;I do want to ensure you that we are very serious about our recruitment of black male role models and very serious about supporting all our mentors. We do always, however, have to put the needs of the child first and when the two conflict unfortunately the mentor cannot be our top priority.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>I accept, of course, that parental permission is required for any mentoring relationship to continue. And it&#8217;s obviously the ultimate get out clause in the face of poor management skills and a clear organisational error of judgement.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;We are still keen for you to be matched with another child and are hopeful that you are still willing to volunteer for us.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>Yeah, right!</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;I have attached the letter I sent to you on 11th August 2008. I am not sure why you did not receive it at the tie and I apologise if it was due to any mistake on my part. I hope this letter answers your queries.&#8221;</p>
<p>Gracia McGrath O.B.E.<br />
Chief Executive</em></strong>
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